14 September 2018
I joined this site in 2007. As a single mom dating was not easy, after a few coffee dates I made good friends, but had not someone I could see a future with, and I found that a lot of people were only there for dating and not really looking for a partner. August 2008 I received a very short note from Namibia...it escalated to private emails and eventually we decided to meet in Cape Town a month later. It was not love at first sight, but there was mutual interest. We got married 21 March 2009, I moved from Pretoria to Namibia, we have a lovely daughter together, my kids accepted him as their dad, we will celebrate our 10 year date anniversary on the 18th September 2018! and our 10th wedding anniversary next year :-) It is not the conventional way to meet and it raises eyebrows, but when you are doing it for the right reason then you will find the right partner. Thank you!